Get What You Want out of Life

My niece, who had just turned 4, was having a tantrum for not wanting to go to school. It was one of those first-day-of-school blues that some of us went through as children. Only, she seemed to have it so bad. She was kicking and flailing her little arms out, not wanting to go to school and leave the comforts of home but my sister wouldn’t budge. I could still hear my niece’s wails as I got in my car to go to work.

 

A week later, I was surprised to learn that my niece was already excited to go to school daily, and that she hates being late. Given my previous recollection of her feelings toward studying, I got curious as to why and what happened.

 

As it turns out, their teacher put them through some NLP anchoring of her own. My niece told me how her teacher gives them stars and little candy incentives for good behavior, class participation and great exams. After the elaborate story-telling, my niece then proceeded to show off the stars she got in class.

 

And it got me to thinking, why do kids seem to appreciate life’s simple pleasures than their grown-up counterparts? The answer is simple. Kids aren’t jaded unlike grown-ups. They learn easily because they have that innate feeling of curiosity and eagerness to find solutions to their problems, which seemed to be lacking from their grown-up counterparts.

 

So how could we reclaim that lost vigor and zeal we used to have as children? The answer lies within ourselves, but if we’re not astute enough then we may never find out what that answer is. Or what we’re supposed to look for and fix in the first place.

 

But for normal people like us, who usually have no clue about what goes around us or inside our heads, then it sure would be very helpful to us if there’s a NLP book or a NLP DVD which would help us better understand our own personal complexes and adjust to resolve them? To know how you can take what you want out of life and enjoy it?

Neuro-linguistic programming is just the methodology we need for helping make these changes possible. Through anchoring, we can train our minds to become more focused on the positive aspects of a certain thing.

An anchor is just a recollection of an instance from the human nervous system that triggers another recollection of something else. Just like the word “coffee”, for example. Hearing or seeing that word will immediately trigger images, tastes and aromas associated with the word itself. Whereas the word “ice cream” will trigger a different kind of association from our recollection. Anchors do not have to be words, they can be a wide range of things.

 

The NLP business may be in its early stages in most countries right now, but I believe a great NLP guide or NLP book would help millions out there who want to give their lives a chance to become better and more fulfilling. We only live once, so why should we waste our time not trying to become the person we aim to be?

 

 

 

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